Keeping your relationship healthy By Robert Njoroge S tarting a new relationship is the easiest part of any love encounter. The challenge comes in the second episode of maintaining it to the maximum time possible. Swaying in the same board and at the same time be in the same page is one huge mountain for the couple to climb. Communication is one tool that overcomes many obstacles in any partnership. There are some of the issues that one has to address and critically think and act them. Speak up in a relationship. Remember that disparaging your partner’s view is one offence that may lead to the embarrassing dissolution. Do not let your opinions and views eat you while in the heart-let the tongue does its work. It should release what is in your mind and heart. Feeling and wishes of your partner are valuable ingredients that you have to embrace. Respect falls as one major aspect to engage in your relationship. Give them the optimum level of respect they deserve. It should be a mutual respect. You have a role to respect their privacy. By being in a true relationship, doesn’t mean that you have to know their privacy. Everybody, including you, has the right to have a seclusion of appropriate privacy. Note that you might hide issues thinking it’s your private affairs, watch out! Remember that some circumstances may not allow you to be together all the time. Be supportive by all means possible. Remember the vows and promises you made to each other before you got together, can’t you recall? It virtuous to encourage and reassure your love all the times they are down or depressed. You might be in a position to remain at the peak of the support they need but assure them that you are just next to the all the times. The modern couples think that financial support is the only crucial in a relationship. There is more than that, although it is still very important. “Remember that disparaging your partner’s view is one offence that may lead to the embarrassing dissolution” Boundaries must be there to strengthen your relationship. You sit down and come up with this. However, boundaries are not meant to restrict you from sharing and staying together when you have time. It should not prevent you from going out with friends, but do not take advantage of this. It your freedom and right to give crucial information to your partner like passwords to your emails, social networks and banks. Your boundaries should not restrict you from going to your hobbies that your partner is not interested with. Make your relationship healthy!!!
Keeping your relationship healthy
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tarting a new relationship is the easiest part of any love encounter. The challenge comes in the second episode of maintaining it to the maximum time possible. Swaying in the same board and at the same time be in the same page is one huge mountain for the couple to climb.
Communication is one tool that overcomes many obstacles in any partnership. There are some of the issues that one has to address and critically think and act them. Speak up in a relationship. Remember that disparaging your partner’s view is one offence that may lead to the embarrassing dissolution. Do not let your opinions and views eat you while in the heart-let the tongue does its work. It should release what is in your mind and heart.
Feeling and wishes of your partner are valuable ingredients that you have to embrace. Respect falls as one major aspect to engage in your relationship. Give them the optimum level of respect they deserve. It should be a mutual respect. You have a role to respect their privacy. By being in a true relationship, doesn’t mean that you have to know their privacy. Everybody, including you, has the right to have a seclusion of appropriate privacy. Note that you might hide issues thinking it’s your private affairs, watch out! Remember that some circumstances may not allow you to be together all the time.
Be supportive by all means possible. Remember the vows and promises you made to each other before you got together, can’t you recall? It virtuous to encourage and reassure your love all the times they are down or depressed. You might be in a position to remain at the peak of the support they need but assure them that you are just next to the all the times. The modern couples think that financial support is the only crucial in a relationship. There is more than that, although it is still very important.
“Remember that disparaging your partner’s view is one offence that may lead to the embarrassing dissolution”
Boundaries must be there to strengthen your relationship. You sit down and come up with this. However, boundaries are not meant to restrict you from sharing and staying together when you have time. It should not prevent you from going out with friends, but do not take advantage of this. It your freedom and right to give crucial information to your partner like passwords to your emails, social networks and banks. Your boundaries should not restrict you from going to your hobbies that your partner is not interested with. Make your relationship healthy!!!